April 10, 2010

11 points of the old people's mistakes

Every parent would want the best for their children, education, food or things they need will always be fulfilled by the parents, but sometimes there are things that are not intentionally or we realize that it actually will make the children do not until what was intended or deviate from the main objective, ie make him not independent or successful when he stepped up later and there is 11 points parents might mistake we ever did.


Here are 11 points of the old people's mistakes;

1. When he was imitating / saying dirty words, we tertawai him! This would make him think that this is funny and makes him to do so repeatedly.
2. Satisfy all the desires of eating, drinking, parties, luxury and all his needs. Try to pay attention and sort out where he wishes that it should be necessary and which ones we can not fulfill. If it is not going to make children fall dalanm harmful frustration.
3. Manjakanlah your children. By letting them dictate to us. This can cause her to grow with the belief that the world owes a life to him.
4. Never educate or provide spiritual education. Membebaskanlah he followed all his will and decide for themselves can cause her to lose control.
5. Pick up any fallen or lying on the floor, maybe pencils, books, clothes, or shoes. Do anything about him so that he will be able to experience in throwing all responsibility to someone else!
6. When the boy got a big problem, forgive ourselves and said, "I can not do anything for her ...!". Do not despair or regret in educating children in the future.
7. Vigilant so that children are not infected with germs by cleaning and sterilizing utensils but we allow the child to watch a TV show that is not appropriate for him or reading materials that are not for her age, or even access the web are not destined for itself.
8. Rule or rules made to be broken, so do not pedulu if the child is not orderly. So if you later become life bersiapkan a confusing, chaotic and arbitrary itself.
9. Frequently angry without reason or cause is clear in front of the children and show that if we are angry it really scary! In this way they would not be surprised if eventually they will be shallow minded and like to make mischief.
10. Give the child easiness. Educate him with the tricks and shortcuts do not let him face the challenges.
11. Defend against him when his friends, his teacher, neighbor, or brother. Although he's done something wrong to them.

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